Words to Live By:

Words to live by from the Writings of Joan S. Grey © Jane F. Collen April 10, 2023 IndexCardCure.com™still inspiring us

Good Intentions Don’t Cut It — Guest Contributor

We’ve all heard the maxim: The Road to Hell is Paved with Good Intentions! An expert in the not-for-profit/charity field crafts this month’s guest post. Rebecca Rodriguez wants to ensure we spend our charitable efforts and money wisely, to accomplish the good and the change we want to see in the world. Good Intentions Don’t…

Fairies NOT Permitted

This fairy has a great story. But like many of us, pervading attitudes about ‘her type’ sometimes prevent it from being heard! Let’s use Women’s History Month to keep practicing the open-mindedness we reinforced during Black History month. Perpetuating Stereotypes: Apparently it is fine for girls to be served a never-ending diet of male superheroes…

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ODE TO A FRIEND

This is the first year since I was 12 that my friend and collaborator Joan Smith Grey did not wish me a happy birthday. In recent years I was so glad that my birthday was one week before hers. The arrival of some wonderful, fun package in the mail always reminded me it was time…

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Fight Road Rage! Listen to a Good Book!

I hate getting stuck in traffic. I am not a patient person, even though year after year I add: Learn Patience! to my New Year’s Resolutions. Funny, my family hates it when I get stuck in traffic too. Apparently I take every little delay personally. And I have this New York City cab driver driving…

Don’t lose the Thanksgiving Gratitude in the Minutiae of Holiday Preparations

I have to tell myself this all the time. And how lucky I am to have the problems I have. The Grinch: Too often Grinch-y feelings rear their ugly head and take over my thoughts. Instead of rejoicing that I have such a wonderful, big family, I agonize over spending $$$ to get them Christmas…

Our First Guest Blogger!

Rebecca Rodriguez is no stranger to IndexCardCure™. She’s been a loyal follower ever since she met Joan. Rebecca writes: When Joan started IndexCardCure several years ago she invited me to contribute material. I don’t recall if I told her a flat out “NO”, or if I said that I would think about it. Nothing ever…

REFOCUSING

Ideas take shape:Together Joan and I organized and distilled down the goals for our original collaboration. Then Joan produced our first Index Card. Eight years later, with the help of Joan’s friend and my new collaborator Rebecca Rodriguez, I rediscovered it on our website. Together we are better! Joan checked all the boxes! As I…

A Fitting Tribute to a Remarkable Woman

The friends and the friends-who-are-relatives of Joan Smith Grey gathered at the Military Women’s Memorial in Arlington National Cemetery on Saturday to honor and celebrate an outstanding woman. The eulogies, the snapshot photo show, and the recording of Joan reading the Epilogue to her book accentuated some of Joan Grey’s many accomplishments. We revered Joan…

Where Does Your Detergent Bottle Go?

When you finish your load of laundry or empty the last drop from your dishwasher soap, what happens to the bottle? Check your nearest scenic waterfall. What if all of us just make one change? What if we all switch to a detergent that comes in cardboard instead of plastic? We know now that plastic…